First Meeting.

Tonight I introduce to you two guys.

 

Martin and Kel. Never mind the names. They are not real anyway. 

 

I “met” Martin through a friend of mine. A friend I met at my current workplace. “Met”, because we never got to meet face to face. Atleast not yet. It was the Facebook kind of meeting. I add him on Facebook. My friend explains to him who I am blah blaah.. he accepts and we start talking. We never talked much. I was always the one initiating conversations, something I do not like, and sometimes he would go off in the middle of a conversation. I got bored almost as soon as we “met”, but I was still hoping that something would come of this hook-up. I was at a period in my life where I was sort of desperate for a boyfriend. I needed to start dating, and asap.I gave myself excuses for him, like he is too busy, or I am still a stranger to him so he don’t wanna talk much. I thought perhaps he already had a girlfriend that’s why he wasn’t interested in meeting a new person.

 

 

Next.

Kel.

Kel is the kind of guy you look at twice.. and once more. but you can’t say exactly why. He is a combination of cute and handsome and hot and crazy and bad-boy-ish and sweet and innocent and humble and rich and so-many-other-things. So you cannot tell exactly what he is. He is the kind of person you secretly hope will approach and say hi to you. The kind of guy I hoped he wouldn’t notice that I had noticed that about him. The kind of guy you’re thinking maybe he is looking at you but then you think he gives that look to every other girl.

 

He is not mysterious, but you still cannot tell what kind of person he is.

Met him at my current workplace, but in another town different from where I am now stationed. I liked what I saw. I liked how his suits wore him. How he smiled. How he talked. How he laughed. 

I started hoping he was single and interested in me. 

 

Never mind that he was dark and I’m not really into dark guys. I have a preference for light complexions who will give me equally light complexioned babies. I find it easier to dress light complexioned kids.I feel you can dress them in anything and they still look lovely. That’s just me. 

 

 

Signs She Has Moved On

Girls love playing games, if you ask me. But most of you men aren’t designed to play along. Girls know this, but they really don’t care.

Sometimes they will be upfront about something, and sometimes they will just let you figure out what you have done wrong (or right, though rarely)

The following list is a response to your outcry as men. Those still wondering if she’s still in your team, when we know she moved well and clear in the last transfer window. Women will always let you know (though sometimes in complex codes) that the relationship is over and her interest in you is long dead.

So, gentlemen, this is how you will know, your little miss sunshine has moved on:

1. She has excuses for everything related to you. She’s suddenly not available for your little dates.
2. She got a new phone number and did not bother telling you (ouch!)
3. She “forgot” your birthday.
4. She just doesn’t care. You can do whatever you want and she will not ask a question.
5. She signs of facebook (or other chat) moments after you start chatting with her.
6. She replies with one word texts (this is probably one of the most obvious, guys. Women love talking.)
7. She is not jealous anymore. You can hang out with your hot “cousin” and she just won’t be bothered.
8. All communication that happens between the two of you is initiated by you.
9. She says it’s over.
10. Your photos suddenly disappear from her Facebook photos.
11. She has a new guy.
12. She withdraws from things that you two used to do together.
13. She no longer makes future plans where you are involved.
14. She moved to a new hostel/apartment/town/country! and you had no idea.

Remember gentlemen,  if a woman likes you she will help you along the way.

So many people …

So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’re chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.
– Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie

Imagination was…

Imagination was given to man to compensate him for what he is not; a sense of humor to console him for what he is. ~Francis Bacon